NOW HEAR THIS!!!!!

Now hear this people!!!

 I love yall, and I love getting to go out to eat with yall, but I will NO longer go to the local greasy spoon or fat filled restaurant.  If you want us with you, there must be healthy alternatives on the menu.  What I mean by that is, I have to be able to find the nutrition facts for said restaurant on the internet somewhere.  I am only eating healthy gluten free.  If you really want us but really want that greasy spoon, do NOT be offended if I bring my own meal shake with me.  That is why I have gained back some of this weight and been stuck at a plateau.

This goes for my whole family.  We will ONLY eat gluten free clean food.  I am NOT ashamed to bring shakes or alternatives for us.  If the restaurant is not cool with our diet restrictions and bringing an alternative, then my family and I don't need to eat there.

 I am enforcing this on Ryan, because I know genetically, he is predisposed to diabetes, heart disease obesity and high blood pressure.  I am aware that he is really skinny now, but teaching him to eat nothing but crap now means he will eat nothing but crap all his life.  I was teeny tiny all my life and even into my mid 20's.  I then blew up like a ballon and have had many health problems as a result.  I will NOT have Ry go through that.  If you can't be supportive in me teaching my family to live a healthy lifestyle, then get to steppin, because we don't need crap in our lives.  I am sick and tired of hearing excuses as to why my skinny husband and son should be able to eat crap.  I am not being too hard on my family.  I know many people that have health problems related to their diets, they know that is what is causing the problems and do absolutely nothing to change that.  I have no sympathy.  I'm sorry, but y'all are bringing this on yourselves.  I will NOT live like that any more.  I refuse to be a prisoner in my own body.

Don't you dare judge me for only wanting my son to eat clean healthy food.  That is NOT torture people.  That is teaching him to lead a healthy life.  Since when did it become child abuse to make your child eat healthy food?  My job as a mom, is to raise a healthy, happy child that can take care of himself, and his family and lead a healthy adult life.  If that is child abuse, well then, I sure am abusing the hell out of that boy.  He is happy, relatively healthy and can already do many things around the house most children and adults can't even do.  I think that is a damn good thing.

If you don't like that, then cut me out of your life.  If all you want is crap in your life, I want no part of it.  I have my own personal demons to deal with.  If you can't be a positive influence or you don't want a positive influence in your life, then you don't want me or my family in your life.

Done.